I Came to Explore the Wreck

Purpose:  noun the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists. verb have as one’s intention or objective. “I came to explore the wreck. The words are purposes. The words are maps. I came to see the damage that was done and the treasures that prevail.” – Adrienne Rich I

Now, I Gotta Go Get a Plan B

Cool your jets….not the pill! While my threat level has been real low (don’t know why, can’t even fully play the Christianity/faith card (but I do have faith, don’t get it twisted) …) I have made some adjustments to day-to-day life in my house; all-inclusive with sending my kid away every other day (to a

Who Said I Had a Timeline for this Shit?

Alright, so check it. Raise your hand if, for most of your twenties, you placed seemingly ridiculous expectations on yourself. Take a shot if, in your early thirties, you damn near had a mid-life crisis because you hadn’t even accomplished #1 on the ridiculous list of expectations from your twenties. Rejoice loudly if, you got

Adult Friendships Be Like….

I recently read an article that was circulating Facebook “The Harsh Reality about Adult Friendships” or something like that. The title may be a little off, but I, vividly, remember the context. While it hit some things perfectly, others were a bit subjective. So, I thought, “I have a perspective on adult friendships.” Wa la,

The Proverbial Self-Care

  Disclaimer: My kid is 17, drives and I’m not married. So take this with all the grains of salt you can grasp Self-care or stress induced outings that start out positively intended? Does this scenario sound familiar:  It’s Wednesday.  Random thought, “I should go get a massage and mani/pedi.  Followed by, “I should ask

Mercury is Retrograding TF Out of Me Today

                                                  So, this isn’t even what I had planned for the week. But the way this day bodied and had its way with me, I know I am not alone. I

My First Blog Post

Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken. — Oscar Wilde. This is the first post on my new blog. I’m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates.

Allow me to (re) introduce myself!

Sooooo, blog one! I have to admit, I’m a little nervous. 1. who told me to write a blog? 2. I am a grammar snob and if I slip up, OH BOY! But, here I am. Diving into this thing. Who am I? Well, if that “aint” the hardest question to answer, ever! A mother